For many years I consulted to the leaders of companies around the globe empowering them with the leadership style, tools and skills to make the kinds of organizational and leadership changes that would produce greater productivity and profit. These leaders called for my services because they came to the realization that the company was hurting and as a result was unable to achieve its stated goals. Using my kind of language I would say that for many years I consulted to companies, filled with employees with a hurting spirit. This caused thousands of employees to be emotionally, intellectually and technically stuck, unable to actualize their greatest potential and offer their enormous talents to grow the company.
After a few years I noticed that the tools I taught worked very well in the hands of some business leaders but in other cases the application of the same tools resulted in no significant change. I wondered, ‘why are the same tools effective in the hands of some leaders and managers and ineffective in the hands of others?
Then, years later, after working with parents and teachers I had the same question. Why are some parents able to use the tools they learn and successfully make truly transformative changes in their own lives and the lives of the children, while others stay stuck despite having the same tools and the same desire to heal their children?
What keeps these parents stuck?
It has become abundantly clear to me that the degree of successful healing from parent to child, totally depends on one thing – the Inner Place from which the parent is functioning. To quote Bill O’Brien, the late CEO of Hanover Insurance, summarizing his experience as a successful leader of transformative change, “The success of an intervention depends on the interior condition of the intervenor.”
Healing your child all depends on what is going on inside of you. When parents attempt to use the tools to heal their kids while functioning from their own inner hurting, stressed place, there can be NO healing. The most amazing healing takes place when moms and dads interact with their kids from their inner healthy, peaceful place. Interacting from this inner place creates a healthy spirit to spirit interaction from parent to child and when this occurs all kinds of wondrous things can happen!
This is why my practice is called, Parents Take Charge. Moms and dads need to become aware of their own inner world and the impact this is having on their beloved children. Consider the question: ‘Which side of me is in the driver’s seat most of the time’? Is it the anxious, confused, overwhelmed, frustrated side or is it the calm, peaceful, vibrant, positive expectations side? So much of what your child is facing depends on your answer to this. If you find that you are responding to your world mostly from the stressed and anxious place inside you, then use this insight as a wonderful opportunity for you to learn how to find and reconnect with the healing place inside you. We all have this healing, quiet, calm, happy place at the center of our being, just waiting for us to go there and enjoy the incredible blessings this brings to you and your children.
So, moms and dads, healing your children, begins with healing yourself.
Let me tell you about my Healing Parent Training Workshop on Video
I have created a video workshop containing a Tool Box of 9 powerful Healing Parent tools to deal with commonly experienced parent-child challenges. The term I use for the process of being a Healing Parent is NeuroParenting. I use this term because when you know how to parent in a healing way you will be automatically stimulating your child’s healthy neurochemistry. You will be helping your child heal from the inside out! Healthy neurochemistry means healthy behavior, positive feelings and increased ability to use brain power. Unhealthy chemistry means problems with behavior moods and learning.
Dr. Sandy’s NeuroParenting Training Video I teach you why and when to use the 9 tools, how to use these tools and even the words to say, so that you feel confident and comfortable putting the tools into practice. Each of these tools are real easy to use and are actually fun. I will show you how to integrate these naturally into your normal schedule and time with your kids.
When you purchase this one-hour video you will get a link that you can view from your laptop or mobile device. The video is yours to watch at your own leisure, when it is convenient for you and when you need a particular tool for a particular situation you are dealing with.
There are 3 sections:
What is NeuroParenting (7 minutes)
How NeuroParenting works (5 minutes)
Your NeuroParenting Toolbox. (42 minutes)
This video workshop is filled with lots of important research and information. And Section 3 – which you can see is the major section – contains a toolbox of healing tools, explained in great detail so that you can begin to use them immediately.
You will learn how to:
– Work with the child’s potential –not the problems.
– Prevent the build-up of stress chemistry in parent and child.
– Calm the child’s nervous system.
– Prevent and manage meltdowns.
– Calm anxieties and fears.
– Have healing conversations using healing language.
– Set healing boundaries.
– Strengthen and grow the child’s brain with every parent-child interaction.
– Identify and build your child’s unique identity
– Build your child’s emotional resilience
The tools are designed to help you help your children …
- Behave in positive ways
- Develop a healthy, resilient spirit
- Build their self-esteem
- Increase their ability to focus and learn
- Boost their social skills
- Help them to feel good and love life
- Reduce stress – yours, your children’s and the stress in the family.
There is also an audio version for parents who prefer to listen without the video.
NeuroParenting brings out the best in ALL children, no matter whether you have…
- Kids who have meltdowns, temper tantrums, low self- confidence, low motivation, perfectionism, withdrawal, moodiness, defiance, stress, anxiety … amongst others.
- Kids that have been diagnosed with ADD, ADHD, ODD Autism, Tourettes, Asperger’s, bi-polar or any other label.
- Kids with no particular problems.
- Gifted kids.
NeuroParenting is good for all parents and all children because it teaches you how to engage with your children in ways that stimulate the healthy chemicals that heal and feed their bodies and brains. What is so powerful about these healing NeuroParenting tools is that while you are boosting your child’s healthy chemistry, you are also boosting your own chemistry and reducing your own stress – the whole family benefits.
It’s fun and, most importantly, it works!
To quote one of my clients
‘ I must say that a lot of the things I have learnt from your video workshop have been very helpful. It is amazing to see the change in all of us. Thank you! I am just really sorry that I had not heard about you sooner as my son is 17 now and has had a tough time in junior school’.
Click on this link and Get started today!